Wednesday, May 30, 2012

School's out for summer!

Well, after today that is- The very last finals, the very last minutes in those too small school benches for my grown up boy/man T ! Although I am home today, I won't have time to reflect on this for too long because my family is coming in two days and as usual the house is a bit out of shape.

While I am draining the last drops of my delicious cup of coffee, I am presenting you with my personal solution to the complaints about a certain presidential candidate. I thought this up while helping out in the social work office of the children's hospital where I volunteer. It is said that the candidate seems out of touch with the populace- I think that is easily remedied by a few days of social work boot camp!! After only a few days (quite possibly just a day will suffice) said candidate will have a nice and concise overview of what the populace is dealing with on a day-to-day basis, and as an added bonus, it will most likely change his mind about the health care overhaul. I haven't cleared this excellent plan with the authorities yet, but I can't see how they might object...



To soothe my soul after a draining day at the hospital (yes, there is immeasurable satisfaction when I am able to help, but also frustration when I am not) there is not much better than coming home to my family, husband, kids, cats, and since we have had the front yard 'done' last year, that includes a stroll around the path. The path is my favorite part, and we have honestly had people ring our doorbell just to tell us how much they liked it too!

picture courtesy of R.


For now, I will leave you with a picture of what I call my lazy-knitting, it is just a very easy straight forward cotton blanket.


Those were my scraps for the day- enjoy yours!

Monday, May 28, 2012

reflection, contemplation

No picture today, just some thoughts and a little story. It is Memorial Day here in the USA. Yesterday, R and I watched a segment of the program in DC on TV. Someone played "Taps" on the trumpet, which brought back memories of a memorial day in the Netherlands, called ' doden herdenking' . It is on May 4th, and May 5th is then 'bevrijdings dag' because that is when all of the Netherlands was free of the German occupation at the end of WWII. 


One May 4th, I was en route by bus from the town where R went to college to my own college city, Utrecht. When it was time for the two minutes silent contemplation at 8 pm, the bus driver turned of the radio and parked the bus on the side of the road. I was surprised but thankful that we could observe this ritual. Thank you, Mr. bus driver. 


This many years later though, I still don't understand why we as people who hold human life so sacred, have not been able to come up with a better way to settle our differences and disputes- 



Saturday, May 26, 2012

Ere wie ere toekomt - credit where credit is due!

My kids will be the first people to tell you -with their unfailing honesty when it comes to talking about their parents- that I am somewhat technologically challenged. I prefer to call it under-educated. So when I started this blog, I really could use all the help I could get. And who says 'a good neighbor is better than a far friend' ? Not in this case! My' far' friend Marjan from   http://cowroad.blogspot.com/ has been working tirelessly behind the scenes to make this blog look so awesome. Check out her blog and you shall see proof of her many talents. She is one of those domestic goddesses whom I was talking about in my last post (I know this because she used to live closer and I visited her home often enough to be surprised with something new and fun/beautiful/crafty/yummy every time!). And  she is a great friend! 


I'll leave you with a picture of my little girl Lucy, taking a nap on the table runner. The guys just finished cleaning the outside tabletop I mentioned in Boys and toys and there is more fun to be had during this long weekend. It is memorial day weekend here in the USA, but in my town this is better known as race-weekend. 
Those were my scraps for the day- enjoy yours!

How to be a domestic goddess

Weekend again already! Which we celebrate with a relaxed Friday evening and then sleeping in on Saturday. This always sounds like a good idea until I feel kind of funky from sleeping so long...

While I was conquering the laundry mountain this morning, I was also contemplating the title of a book I borrowed from the library a long time ago:


This contemplation was brought on by not only the laundry mountains but also by the impending visit of my mother, brother, sister-in-law, and my little niece. As far as I recall, my mother kept house very well, cooking delicious meals, keeping everything in order and spotless unobtrusively, taking care of three kids and the throngs of friends that we brought over, while maintaining a job as an ER nurse 'on the side'. She also used to sew a lot of our clothes. I have no clue how she did this, and clearly I have not inherited her talents.

However, I do have some clue about baking and comfort cooking. So although I will attempt to clean the house in the upcoming days, I am plotting to cover up my lack of skills (and motivation) in that department by baking some very delicious things to serve during their visit. I will keep you updated on how that goes!

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Boys and toys

Dus ik kwam gisteravond thuis na een lange dag vol met ups en down bij het kinderziekenhuis waar ik vrijwilligers werk doe- en vond mijn twee favoriete mannen in de achtertuin, druk bezig met een nieuw speeltje. Een heuze hoge druk spuit! Dat hadden we kennelijk echt nodig. Wat valt er dan zoal te hoge-druk-spuiten vraag je je af? Nou, bijvoorbeeld onze tuin tafel, die de hele winter geen aandacht had gehad en ook niet verdekt/bedekt was opgesteld, en dus bloot gesteld aan de elementen en vooral het element 'bos'. Glunderend bestraalden ze om de beurt de op z'n kant gekeerde plastic tafel, en nodigden mij uit om het ook te proberen :"je wilt dit ook doen, is leuk!" Goed, nou, het is inderdaad makkelijker dan zelf met de schrobber aan de slag, en uit ervaring weet ik dat het resultaat minder mooi is. Daarom leg ik er ook meestal een quilt overheen als we buiten zitten.

not quite done, but you can deduce what the whole table looked like 
the box 
So last night I came home from a long day filled with ups and downs at the children's hospital where i volunteer- and found my two favorite guys in the back yard playing with their latest toy that had just arrived. A real power washer! Which we apparently needed very much. Well, what ever for, you inquire? Well, for instance for our outside table, which had been neglected all winter and was left prone to the elements, specifically the element 'woods'. Broadly smiling, the guys were taking turns to wash the tilted plastic table, inviting me to "try it, you know you want to!". Indeed much easier than scrubbing with my own elbow grease, and definitely cleaner too- that's why I usually cover it up with a quilt when we sit outside.

detail of the usual cover-up quilt,the lemon/lime fabric was a gift from my mom, I think she bought it at Ikea 

Dus ik liet de heren hun lol en ging gauw met mijn eigen nieuwe speeltje aan de slag- een ninja chopper- om de groenten voor de pasta saus in twee seconden te hakken. Het voordeel van de ninja is, behalve dan dat het ding geweldig werkt, dat het allemaal ook in een ander favoriet speeltje kan, de afwas machine. Ik gebruik natuurlijk ook mijn aandeel in electronisch speelgoed...de naaimachine uiteraard en de wasmachine, de droger, de oven, de microwave etc etc. Maar omdat we hier alles op electrisch hebben, inclusief de waterpomp (geen wc doortrekken geen douche, geen water uit de kraan), kunnen we af en toe reflecteren over hoe afhankelijk we zijn van die stroom, namenlijk als het hier uitvalt- iets dat hier nog wel eens gebeurt in de US.



So I left the men to their fun and went to work with my own new toy, a ninja chopper, to chop the veggies for the pasta sauce in two seconds flat. Besides chopping like nothing else, the ninja parts can be cleaned in yet another favorite toy, the dishwasher. I certainly use my share of electronic toys- my sewing machine of course, the washing machine, the dryer, the oven/stove, the microwave, etc etc. But because our whole house has everything on electricity (no gas), including the water pump (so no flushing the toilet, no shower, no water from the faucet), we get a chance the reflect on our dependence every now and then during one of the usual power outages here in the US.

Nog wat plaatjes van mijn korte ochtend wandelingetje van vandaag- en dat waren de lapjes. 

Some pictures from my short morning stroll in the garden- and those are my scraps for today.


looks like at least some of the flowers will be blue-ish- I added some aluminum sulfate to the soil to prevent the blossoms from turning pink

surprise! I bought this plant for a fundraiser and could not remember what I had ordered. It arrived as a small root (life plant) and so I just planted it to see what it would turn out to be. 

ah, blooming catnip and shadows on the path


Saturday, May 19, 2012

Weekend

Zo heette onze buurt.
This used to be the name of our neighborhood. 

We hebben geen verplichte dingen dit weekend, en de kids gaan hun eigen gang- wij dus ook. Lekker 'carefree'. Gisteravond was ik wel even verdrietig van weer twee afwijzingen (voor banen) maar vandaag zie ik het zonniger in. 

We've got no commitments for this weekend, and the kids are doing their own things- so we do too! Last night I was quite sad about the two latest rejections (for jobs) but today I am looking on the bright side.

daylilly, ooit van mijn tuinierende vriendin Beth gekregen
daylilly, got those from my gardening friend Beth

Er is altijd veel te beleven in de tuin. Maar er zijn ook altijd veel muggen hier onder de bomen. Dus na mijn bloed donaties aan de muggen populatie ben ik nu binnen. Ga ik zo pizza deeg maken en daarna een paar boodschapjes doen. De rondbreipen waarop ik de deken maak is gebroken, maar even een nieuwe halen dan. 

There is always something to experience in the yard. But there are also always a lot of mosquitoes under the trees. So after my blood donations to the mosquito population I went inside. I'm going to make some pizza dough before heading out for some errands. The circular needle on which I am knitting the blanket has broken off, so I need to get a new one I guess.

peony after blooming

I don't really like these, first of all because i am allergic to them and second because the color is a bit too much for me. But in the grand scheme of the yard, they look good. Like that piece of fabric in a quilt that doesn't really look good on it's own but makes the quilt more colorful.

Oak leaf hydrangea

lambs ear, love the color and structure of the leaves

our overgrown fire pit- I just like the slightly overgrown look

what is left of a tree

the goddess of the garden, a surprise gift from R 

I wanted blue hydrangeas but if they are going to be this delicate lavender color I am okay with that too

remnant of a poppy

hosta


I am very happy with this picture, but V says it is over-exposed- I still like it! I love the dandelion puffs, and the German name for them : Pusteblumen
 That's my scraps of the day- Enjoy yours!

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Hihi...

... ik herhaal mezelf nogal geloof ik. Nou, geeft niet, is allemaal onderdeel van het leer process. Tijd om iets lekkers te bakken!

Haha, I am repeating myself quite a bit! No matter, it is all part of the learning process. Time to start baking something yum!

Dagelijkse dingen- Daily scraps

Vanochtend stond ik al voor 11.00 in de keuken, want vanavond breng ik eerst eten naar een vriendin voordat ik naar de steun groep voor kinderen die rouwen ga. De vriendin heeft een vroeg geboren jochie in het ziekenhuis- het gaat hem heel goed. De steun groep ga ik voor de tweede keer naartoe, ik begeleid daar een groep van 6-9 jarigen die allemaal een geliefd persoon hebben verloren. En ik heb gezocht en gezocht maar kon nergens het recept vinden van een plaat koek die ik ooit vaak maakte, toen we nog in Colorado woonden. Heb je wel eens, niks anders klinkt lekker, het moet die koek zijn...met kersenjam en chocolade stukjes in het midden. Ik raakte verzeild in allerlei duistere hoekjes van de kast en oeroude recepten van dingen die me nog steeds erg lekker lijken maar die ik nooit geprobeerd heb. Uiteindelijk maar een recept van het internet geplukt.
mijn versie van couscous
my version of couscous


This morning I was cooking in the kitchen before 11 am. Tonight I am bringing dinner to a friend before going to the support group for grieving children. The friend has a little one who was born too early- he is doing very well. I am facilitating the support group only for the second time, in the group 6-9 year old, all kids who lost a loved one. 
And I looked and looked but couldn't find the recipe for this one bar cookie that I used to bake frequently when we lived in Colorado. One of those things, nothing else will do, it's got to be that one, with cherry preserves and chocolate chips...I got lost in dusty corners of the bookcase and century old recipes of things that still sound yummie but I've never tried. Eventually, I looked up a recipe online.
R's favorite

lavender


one of the many buds in the hydrangea





false strawberries
Dat waren een paar fotoos van mijn ochtend-ommetje.
A couple pictures from my morning stroll

Enjoy your day!



Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Lantefanteren- Lollygagging

De dingen die ik op mijn lijstje had staan zijn wel gebeurt, merendeels. Maar toch heb ik het gevoel dat ik weinig uitgevoerd heb vandaag. Het uitviegelieren van dit blog gebeuren neemt nog heel wat tijd, vooral omdat ik voornamenlijk naar de verschillende opties tuur, ze uitprobeer, maar niet vind wat ik zoek en eerlijk gezegd ook niet weet wat wat betekent!. Geeft niet, komt wel. (maar niet vanzelf)

I did check off most items on my to-do list, but I still feel like I didn't do much today. Figuring out the blog stuff takes quite a bit of time still, mainly because I just stare at the options, try them out, but never find what I want, or frankly, I don't know what it means! No matter, it will work out. (but not by itself)

Dit brood heb ik vandaag gebakken, dat wil zeggen, mijn machien heeft het gedaan
I baked this bread today, actually, my machine baked it for me
And tijdens mijn ommetje door de tuin heb ik ook nog wat fotoos gemaakt. V is de echte fotografe in ons gezin, en ik doe maar wat met haar oude camera. We wonen op een hele are (denk ik, en het woord alleen al brengt herinneringen boven aan omreken sommetjes waar ik een gruwelijke hekel aan had : hoeveel are in een hectare? )

And during my walk in the yard I took some pictures. V is the real photographer in our family, and i am just playing around with her old camera. We live on an entire acre (the word reminds me of those dreaded math equations about acres and larger parcels and how many in this many square feet? ) 
digitalis
de lavendel bloeit!
the lavender is blooming!




varen/fern

blue star

herb garden with hidden steel sculpture by E
kruiden tuin met een verborgen kunststuk gemaakt door E
another view of the herb garden
een andere hoek van de kruidentuin

Lucy

My sleek panther, Ginny